Perhaps the following scenarios sound familiar: Get over yourself. It’s the biggest social phenomenon since the dance club, though it has yet to spawn any new music genres. Think of e-dating services as date generators, nothing more, nothing less.
Duvall, your recent dating life may not quite qualify as “one of life’s most delightful experiences”. Millions of people visit e-dating sites every month. E-dating spans every age, gender, religion, race in the computerized world.
Whenever you go on adate, no matter how you found the date, you’re throwing the dice.
However, having a date rely entirely upon conversation can make things stressful and awkward for both parties.
If you get a little lucky, you’ll meet someone cool to date for a while.
If you get unlucky, your date will be a boring, unattractive loser or worse, a charming, good-looking loser who makes your life miserable.
Instead, you should pick an activity that allows you to talk and get to know one another, but also allows for comfortable silences.
This takes a lot of pressure off of both of you, allowing each to concentrate more on having fun together.